Maybe the System Is Evidence

"You can't have ADHD. Look how organized you are."

People usually mean it as a compliment.

It's ADHD Awareness Month, so here's my honest answer.

I have spent much of my career in leadership and operations. I managed complexity. I created systems. I solved problems. I was organized.

Those things are true.

I also have ADHD. I have OCD. I have dyslexia.

Those things are true too. One doesn't invalidate the other.

Maybe I am organized because I learned what happens when I don't create structure.

Maybe the system is evidence.

Not contradiction.

In Grounded in How I'm Wired, I write about the praise that lands on the mask.

You're so calm.

You're so organized.

You handle everything so well.

They see the polished output. You know what it cost to manufacture.

High performance can become camouflage. If the work is getting done, nobody asks what it costs. Sometimes not even the person doing it.

Success doesn't prove the absence of difficulty. Sometimes success is partly built on the systems someone developed because difficulty existed.

What's one system you built that people mistake for "it just comes easily to you"?

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