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Closer to the Breaking Point Than You Think

A breaking point can arrive while you are still delivering. Seven reflections on exhaustion, disconnection, and the cost of keeping everything together.

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7 signs you’re closer to the breaking point than you think

Not every breaking point looks like a breakdown.

Sometimes you’re still performing.

Still delivering.

Still answering the emails.

Still being the person everyone counts on.

But something has shifted.

1. You’ve become incredibly efficient at not caring.

You still do good work. You just don’t feel much about it anymore.

2. Sunday starts feeling like Monday.

The dread arrives long before the workweek does.

3. You’re tired in a way sleep doesn’t fix.

Because the exhaustion isn’t only physical.

4. Things you used to tolerate suddenly feel impossible.

Your capacity may not be shrinking. Your willingness to keep absorbing dysfunction might be.

5. You fantasize about quitting, but not about what comes next.

You don’t necessarily want a new job. You just want relief.

6. You keep saying, “Once we get through this…”

But there is always another this.

7. You look successful on paper and disconnected in real life.

You built what you were supposed to want.

And somewhere along the way, you stopped asking whether you still wanted it.

The breaking point is not always the moment everything falls apart.

Sometimes it’s the moment you finally notice how much of yourself you’ve been spending just to keep everything together.

That’s where Book 1 begins.

📖 Musings of a Recovering Executive: The Breaking Point

Available on Amazon.

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Personal reflections by Lynn Cirillo. About this writing.